Can a male have an orgasm in the anal? can u come out your anus? |
| Very conflicted question! |
I am a transvestite bottom gay. although I have sex with women but the anal orgasm I experience with my boy? friend is more powerful and intense than the orgasm I have with a woman. I want to become a woman. I don't mid if I don't have vaginal orgasm after transition, provided I continue to have the same anal orgasm. I don't like a man kissing me unless he has a cute face. My be its because of male hormones. I don't want to retain sexual attraction for women after transition as it is frustrating not to have the capacity to fulfill one's desires. I need guidance from trans women, specially those who had similar experience. Trans women please write to me. My e-mail ID is nadeem.mehtab@yahoo.com |
You don't get to decide which gender you're attracted to. That's set in your brain long before you're born, and Transitioning isn't going to change it.
You can't "become a woman." You're either born female, or you're not. If you feel you are a female stuck in a male body, then you are a Transsexual woman, and the logical step would be to see a gender therapist.
A word of warning... Transsexualism has nothing to so with sex, orgasms, or who you are attracted to. If you were to Transition, the first thing that would happen is your sex drive would drop drastically, and your erections would stop. There is no guarantee that you would still be able to orgasm (either way) after GRS, although most people are able to with some patience. Most females do not orgasm as quickly as males, and the process is considerably less "mechanical." If a female is not feeling the right way mentally and emotionally, in most cases it won't matter how "good" the sex is, she won't climax. |
Anal orgasm? I'm a 15 year old male and my "back door" as it is sometimes refered to is rubbed it feels like I'm having an orgasm back there. Is this normal? |
yea its normal!
im a girl and if i can get a orgasm by anal or by someone rubbing right there i think you can too.
ok dont worry about some of theses guys answers there just *****!
i like gay, bisexual, and straight guys- there is nothing wrong with a guy who likes his *** rubbed.
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Household anal tools for males? To intensify my orgasm, r there ne reccomendations for anal tools where it could hit the g-spot? nd no i looked through jackinworld nd there is nothing. Im a 16 year old male. |
| Assuming you aren't trolling: it isn't recommended that you use things around the house. It's incredibly dangerous. The rule of thumb is that if it wasn't designed to go there it shouldn't go there. And men don't have a g-spot. That's women only. |
Help with anal fissure ? hi guys i am 29 male having anal fissure for overa year now..some times it seems to subside but again comes back,,,i have one question that does alcohol and tobacco have role in again aggravating fissures..??
and does orgasm after sex causes it to aggravate ????
and i heard aurvedic method called ksharsutra helps to cure it fuuly is it true ????and if u have any treatments to suggest pleae advice.......... |
It is called Hemorrhoids. Hemorrhoids, which are also called piles, are swollen and inflamed veins in your anus and rectum. They may result from straining during a bowel movement or the increased pressure on these veins during pregnancy, among other causes.
If your hemorrhoids are producing only mild discomfort, your doctor may suggest over-the-counter creams, ointments or pads containing witch hazel or a topical anti-inflammatory agent containing hydrocortisone. This local treatment, in combination with daily warm baths, may relieve your symptoms.
Surgical or other procedures
If a blood clot has formed within an external hemorrhoid, your doctor can easily remove the clot with a simple incision, which may provide prompt relief.
To help prevent hemorrhoids or hemorrhoidal flare-ups:
-Eat high-fiber foods.
-Drink plenty of liquids.
-Consider fiber supplements.
-Exercise.
-Avoid long periods of standing or sitting.
-Don't strain.
-Go as soon as you feel the urge.
-Avoid constipation (THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT)
Tobacco, alcohal and orgasm does not aggrevate this problem, at all.
I am not aware of the ayurvedic medicines and its effectiveness. - |
What do you think of this quote about pornography? It's from an article in "off our backs" and I agree with it.
Gail Dines says, "the issue of soft core vs. hard core pornography is over, that pop culture is the new soft core pornography, and hardcore pornography is mostly what is available on the internet. Of hardcore pornography, there are two kinds of pornography: 1. Feature, which is a movie with a plotline and generally has some technical sophistication, although it features "body punishing sex;" and 2. Gonzo, which features such things as making women throw up with a penis, dental equipment being forced into women's vaginas and anal cavities and where gagging is popular...There is no longer any pretense of women 'liking it;' the thrill is that the 'sex' hurts and that she hates it." Dines warned that for many many men, male orgasm is connected to these kinds of images. She said that porn is really what men think of women--they hate women. She says, "Pornography is not a women's issue, it is a men's issue." |
There was once a time when the end of the porno movie was marked by the woman having a REAL orgasm. When the so-called "money shot" came along, that marked the end of any real eroticism in porn. Yes, there are still films out there that simply show two people having sex with the parts that were meant to be used for sex and those movies are incredibly erotic.
The majority of them seem to be about precisely what you've written above - the hatred of women by men. I won't go into descriptions because if you know anything about the films, then you already know what's "out there".
I happen to occasionally watch a bit of porn and when I go to the shop, I ask for "movies made by women". Interestingly, these movies tend to still feature REAL orgasms and real sex. There may be a bit of tedious anal but for the most part, it is about what makes sex so enjoyable: Getting one's rocks off. Men: Take note.
Also, most of the lesbian films I've seen are about the real orgasm.
It is a shame that more directors aren't making more films that couples can share but I think things are changing. There is nothing more erotic than seeing people enjoy sex and that exhiliration that comes with it.
The films you've described above are what those who have some serious issues would want to see. The women in those movies are doing it with those awful rictus smiles because "hey, it's a paycheck". I could say if more women refused to be in them then the need for those films would die out. Alas, there is always some woman with pitiful self-esteem and their own issues who will allow their bodies and spirit to be desecrated in such a spectacular manner. Even the description of the films you've written breaks my heart.
I used to hear men in bars brag about their ability at satisfying women - that was in the US, mind - but now (in the UK) I hear some offensive "us against them" comments and sad comments about how some woman is going to "blow them".
I see from quite a few of the male comments that there are still some real men out there and that they too would find watching people in pain a turn off but I wish that lot - along with women -would take over the porn industry so we can get some good ol' fashioned sex to watch again.
And, to the fella who put forth that stale old "free speech" argument. My dear if you have the freedom to do what you like then responsibility goes right along with it. Just because the freedom is there doesn't mean it needs to be abused. Why is that argument always an excuse for despicable behaviour but never an excuse for doing things that lift people up - all people? Quite. |
Lgbt: what are the best male masturbation methods? any advice on really good masturbation tips and tricks. cock and anal please to get the best possible orgasm. |
press ur thumb on the tip of your cock where the slit is.
rub around with lube or lotion. also, try using a towel. i heard that works great. press into the towel and push with lotion.
I do that all the time :)
hope it helps.
btw...youre cute :) |
Is it safe for me to use my anal vibrator for a prolonged time? I'm male and I recently bought a new anal vibrator. I ask this because although I do receive moderate sexual stimulation, I don't generally orgasm from it alone; however, I do enjoy the rectal stimulation in, I suppose, a non-sexual way. I had another anal vibrator, but it required batteries(which it drained very quickly) and lacked strong vibrations. Now that I have this new one, I can use it longer since it's rechargeable and lasts up to 7 hours. Are there any repercussions for keeping it in for about 4 to 7 hours? |
| I have never heard of this being a problem, but seems like when I do it for awhile it is not as good feeling as it was the first 30 mins. kinda like I get used to it. But for using it in a non-sexual way I would say do what floats your boat. My only question is after you have done this for a long time is it hard for you to pee? If so then it may be not so great because you a causing your prostate to enlarge to an abmormal state. If I do it to long it makes it hard for me to ejaculate and pee later. But we are all different. Feel free to email me from my profile page. |
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